How to prevent little foxes from wreaking havoc in your marriage and relationships

Inspire Son: There is a fox at the door. Me: Open the door and bring it in. Son: Mom! It is a fox, not a box! Me: What! Jumping out of bed, I dashed to the door. Sure enough, there was a fox at the door. Can you imagine what would have happened if my son … More How to prevent little foxes from wreaking havoc in your marriage and relationships

Deep Lasting Love

Inspire What are your plans for Valentine’s Day? I’d like to join in your celebration. Is it ok if I bring a friend along? I have a good friend who knows a lot about love. According to Wikipedia, my friend has written several volumes on love and he is considered the leading expert on the … More Deep Lasting Love

Marriage Series: Introduction

I plan to write more posts on marriage and relationships to share my experiences and lessons learned on the marriage highway during the last 32 years. I am passionate about encouraging women struggling in difficult marriages.  I will be transparent about my journey, however, I will also preserve the privacy of our marriage.


Inspire We are all familiar with fear on some level. Sometimes it presents as a low-level angst that we are not able to shake off. We fear conflict, violence, natural disaster, disease, death, unemployment, and change. According to the dictionary, fear is an unpleasant feeling triggered by the perception of danger, real or imagined. If … More Fear

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year! Thank you for rolling with me in 2017. Today marks the beginning of another New Year and an opportunity for a fresh start. My prayer for us in 2018 is that we will draw closer to Jesus and experience deeper intimacy with Him. I pray that we will receive the perfect knowledge … More Happy New Year!


Inspire Back in October, while out walking, I saw in my mind a picture of a cluster of African oil palm fruits. As I processed this image, I realized that the image matched my word for 2017, “Abundance”. West Africa is famous for palm oil. The oil palm tree bears clusters of fruits in abundance … More Abundance

The Secret Mirror

Do you carry a pocket mirror in your purse? As a woman, having a mirror is essential. We use it to apply makeup and make sure we are presentable. At my son’s wedding, my daughters insisted that we have our makeup done by a professional. All kinds of thoughts raced through my mind. I wondered what … More The Secret Mirror